It is well known that men prefer to date youth and beauty first for
mate selection and women may choose men who offer resources and
stability. U.S. president Grover Cleveland, writer J.D. Salinger,
artist Pablo Picasso, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, and silver screen royalty
such as Humphrey Bogart, Laurence Olivier, Fred Astaire are all examples
of older men dating younger women,
so it becomes more and more popular and acceptable. But why? what’s the
real or the most important reasons of older man want to date younger woman. There have been so many studies conducted exploring the real
reasons behind older men dating younger women. One of them published in Wikipedia and on the websites Spraydate and Age-Match.com.
Men, espercially older men are more likely to look for younger and
beautifpartners. Of a total of 97 men who mentioned age in their surney,
only three were looking for an older partner — among men aged 40 to 59,
only one out of 67. Let’s reveal some of the reasons behind older men
dating younger women.
1. Child is one important reason. Many men over 40
who admit to wanting to have more children —regardless of the fact he
may have already raised a few of his own. Seeking a younger woman in
this case is a requirement (or excuse) to decrease the odds of any birth
defects.
An older man seeks a younger woman for this specific purpose If he
hasn’t had the chance to father a child,. This seems more like a
fostering plan for some but some men want to carry on their legacy with
children of their own. Men have biological clocks too if you didn’t
already know and assume older women cannot safely have children.
2. Younger woman will bring back his fun days. Well
this is an easy explanation. When men get older and are tired of their
regular life, they feel It’s as if he seeks a younger woman to replace
his older wife and convince himself somehow dating a younger woman will
bring back his youthfulness and give him a second chance to have fun
again.
3. Menopause give a cause. If he’s
had a bad experience with his partner going through menopause, frankly
it scares the crap out of him to think about having to go through it all over again with someone new.
Menopause seems to be a cause for many failed marriages or at least
that’s what some men I’ve talked with blame it on. If he’s ever been
online dating or on a few sour blind dates with a woman who’s still
bitter about her break up; all of a sudden he thinks they’re all like that.
Love doesn’t judge by age which is a slogan provided by a famous age gap dating site Age-Match.com. Older men date younger women. Some find their soul mates while others do not. But it’s worth a try…
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